When a girl hears the word rape, they feel the fear, anger and all sort of negative emotions in their mind and body. And the girl who is being raped , his suffering is beyond imagination of many as someone needs to go thru it to actually know it. Why is that rape is a bid deal for a girl , particularly in a somewhat conservative society like India. 1] Bringing and brought up In society which is infested with standards and ideals, everyone has to aligned with it at the cost of non alignement with their treu authentic self and the result is -more and more suppressed energy in due course of time .All these suppressed emotions will need a conduit to come out. More the suppresed emotions, more it will impinge on your health .The result is that u will see rape done by such type of boys. But we shud not be in misconception that thsoe who are not convicted are sane, it just the knot of the judiciary that's stopping them from doing that. But they are not much better than the people who are incarcerated. But when such man are convicted , the society ostarcised such type of men and call for more and more stringent punishments for rapists like castration without taking recourse of the root problem. Emotional souring leading to power hungry politicians make unreasonable laws whose repercussions is felt when some innocent is incarcerated with not only him but also his family having to endure the suffering. We shud not forget that these women who are the mothers of the child suppressed the sexuality of the child and not forget the society which is just interested in making the people serf. Let's talk abt girls. Girls expressiveness is suppressed more brutally than the boys. Girls shud wear this and that, girls shud not mingle with boys , co -ducation banning, girls shud flip burgers in kicthen and the list just goes on and on. As the grils are bilogical weak in physical terms, neurotic people take undue advantage of this. Girls are constantly being reminded abt being holiness of virginity , how if he got raped her whole life will end with her family have to suffer, she will not get married and she will be burden on her parents. All these short sighted mentality is being bombared into the psyche of the girl with traumatic experinences of anger, hatred being generated by the parents. The society is not far behind this. Will u marry a rapist , most of the people will answer no. It's like a girl who is being raped by someone is an untochable. the same society will go for candle march , protest and this and that for enacting stronger laws but if we look in their backyard, piles of hypocrisy is getting collected with stench coming out of it. So, why rape is a big deal for a girl. The big deal is not the physical attrocities she had endure but the emotional trauma which keeps on looping in his mind, thanx to society which includes her parents. If we really want that the girl who is being raped does not feel emotionally down, does not carry the emotional trauma in the form of PTSD , the whole of her life., it's the time to change the mindset of the socuiety. Not only girls but boys shud also get their share of freedom to promote authenticity and hence a higher consciousness soceity . Then , there will be no rape and we need not need to create stupid laws which is directionless . In the end , boys do all suffer with girls framing them on false charges , thanx to the stupid laws being enacted by the governement. When girls suffer, there is great uproar from all sides but when boys suffer, it just a small/ minor incident. Girsl get leniency in the court of law as compared to boys. There are some girsl who want to settle their scores , want money who do such type of things. One must think why girls are doing such things, it's simple - we suppressed their authencity for years and then when they got their expressiveness back, they will surely go on rampage. We have stop this notion of equality for God's sake becos when we talk abt equality, we are comapring people . Where there is comparison ,there is violence. Everyone in this world is unique and that uniqueness shud be expressed in the form of authencity. So, instead of creating feminist movement, males movement, a greater voice for authencity shud be echoes in nooks and corners of thsi universe to create a balanced society. What are ur thoughts on rape,society and laws ?