We live in a world where good behaviour and reward is so innantely attached in our psyche that even we grow up with that script installed by our parents that keeps on running in our life and we keep on encoding or upgrading that version of software. At the end of the day, the society potrays a shiny picture of the achievments in the form of money, degress, power etc. But people fail to look at the other side of the story of so called champs after winning or achieving the feat , the society puts so much pressure or they consider it absolutely necessary to maintain their position or move up at the ladder of success that they start indulging in the very thing what was their passion. It's like a medicine which if taken in optimum amounts work wonder and if taken in excessive is a poison. All these indulgences leads to low self esteem, fear , depression, all sorts of negative things in life. We constantly chase some imaginary goal being presented by the society. But the most paradoxical thing is that these people do not know that all these things are taking a toll on their life . In depression, people are manifesting behaviour which is a form of self abuse . But these people are caught in this whirlpool and they seem not to go out of this. Again, we are being taught that we shud fight with our problems . Sam thing we do with our thoughts and the end result is that we just get exhausted. the best way to escape a whirlpool is to flow in it's direction and not to go against it. But our society always teaches -control. control, control. What are ur thoughts on this?