There's a lot of really wise & intelligent people on here & I would really like to get some advice from some of you guys. By any means, I'm not desperate nor do I go out seeking relationships with whomever I come in contact with. I've had three relationships my whole life (22 years old). As a man, I'm complete by myself & I'm totally fine with being single. I think I'm a handsome young man, athletic, I make really good money for my age & I have an awesome job/career that I love. I'm not the type to cling to anyone by any means. I'm picky about characteristics (not in a bad way - just personal preference). I like to stay focused on my goals in life & so on. With all that said, I just can't help but feel a strong attraction/pull towards this certain female. From the moment I laid my eyes on her I just felt this automatic attraction for her & it's been very strong since. I think about her almost all day. Not out of a sense of need, being desperate or trying to cling to an image in my mind but out of love, peace, creativity & joy. The simple way to put it is that I wanna be with this particular woman & I just can't help my desires about it. I'm not forcing these thoughts or desires, they're just there naturally. When I picture being with her I just get this feeling of vibrant love & joy. Of course I think about it from other aspects as in boredom, negativity, being sexual. I don't wanna throw out the wrong impression. I can't stress enough that I'm not desperate for a relationship or to feel "loved" by someone. I'm always focusing on bettering myself & at this point in time I'm not concerned or even want a relationship but the way I feel inside about this just completely changes that. It's like when I try to suppress how I feel I just get frustrated but when I let things flow naturally it's like my frequency just picks up & I feel vibrant. Words probably can't explain it. What do you guys think about this? Should I resist my desires? I do wanna attract her into my life & everything I've wanted to attract in my life has always came to me at one point or another. I don't care about materialistic things, my image, having a giant ego. I just like being humble & all about the quality of life. These desires are definitely there & they're certainly not from a dimension of loneliness or neediness. I would really like to hear some advice from others if possible.